{"id":212,"date":"2025-04-16T12:50:35","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T04:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/?p=212"},"modified":"2025-04-16T12:55:41","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T04:55:41","slug":"finding-calm-in-chaos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/2025\/04\/16\/finding-calm-in-chaos\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Calm in Chaos &#8211; How Ikigai Helps Ease Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you&#8217;ve ever jolted awake at 3am, mind racing through a hundred different &#8220;what ifs&#8221; about your life, career, or the world in general, I would often ponder about the what ifs till 3am. You&#8217;re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These days, uncertainty feels like a default. Pandemics, AI, war, tariffs (ikr!) when can we get a break from the volatility of the world we live in? Some of us manage it well, some of us, well, turn off the news.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anxiety is the natural response. It&#8217;s your brain&#8217;s way of saying, &#8220;Hey, something feels out of control!&#8221; And honestly? It\u2019s not wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think it&#8217;s easy to spiral out of control amidst of what&#8217;s happening in the macro environment, but hear me, you do not need to (of feel like you need to) control the chaos. You just need to find your <strong>anchor.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that\u2019s where <strong>Ikigai<\/strong> comes in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Graduates wonder if their degrees will still matter in five years. It was the same when I was looking for a job after my degree, I believe it&#8217;s the same for many of graduates now too.<br>Mid-career professionals ask if their jobs will even <em>exist<\/em> in ten, because the rhetoric is increasingly becoming more like you need to constantly be on your toes, be ready to upskill or reskill or be rendered obsolete. Honestly, it&#8217;s a scary world out there. This uncertainty doesn\u2019t mean you&#8217;re failing at life.<br>It just means<strong> you&#8217;re human<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Anxiety<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As someone who used to and (still at times, ngl) struggle with anxiety, I understand. All these uncertainties, don\u2019t mean you&#8217;re failing at life. And that&#8217;s what many of us fear, are we useless? Are we a failure?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"6240\" height=\"4160\" src=\"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-cottonbro-6941117.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-215\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Positioning Ikigai as your anchor<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ikigai<\/strong> (\u751f\u304d\u7532\u6590) is a Japanese concept meaning &#8220;reason for being.&#8221; (And I&#8217;ve talked a little bit more in this <a href=\"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/2025\/03\/08\/ikigai-the-japanese-philosophy-of-finding-purpose\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/2025\/03\/08\/ikigai-the-japanese-philosophy-of-finding-purpose\/\">earlier post<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not about having one massive life mission printed on a motivational poster.<br>It\u2019s about finding small, meaningful reasons to get up in the morning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Ikigai Helps Calm the Anxiety Monster<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When the world feels overwhelming, and our Ikigai quietly reminds us to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Focus on what you can control<\/strong><br>You can&#8217;t control global events, but you <em>can<\/em> control how you show up today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Find meaning in small actions<\/strong><br>Purpose isn\u2019t about grand gestures. It\u2019s found in tiny moments of <strong>connection<\/strong>, <strong>creativity<\/strong>, and <strong>care<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Shift from fear to curiosity<\/strong><br>Instead of asking, &#8220;<strong>What if<\/strong> everything falls apart?&#8221;<br>Ikigai invites you to ask, &#8220;What is still true for me, even now?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Build emotional resilience<\/strong><br>When you know what matters to you deep down, you become less shaken by things you can&#8217;t control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ikigai doesn\u2019t promise certainty but it offers <em>stability inside uncertainty.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to Start Finding (or Strengthening) Your Ikigai<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t need to book a silent retreat (but we can always have a chat or play session) or hermitify yourself in the mountains. You can simply start where you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are 3 simple ways:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Notice moments of aliveness<\/strong><br>When do you feel a spark or a smile you didn\u2019t force?<br>Those are Ikigai breadcrumbs. Pay attention to these micromoments.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Ask small questions<\/strong><br>Instead of &#8220;What is my purpose??&#8221; (cue existential crisis)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Allow yourself to be messy<\/strong><br>Ikigai isn\u2019t a clean, linear journey.<br>It\u2019s a series of small <strong>experiments<\/strong>, <strong>reflections<\/strong>, and <strong>small wins<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t have to be fearless.<br>You don\u2019t have to have it all figured out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just need to find a few things worth waking up to, and keep moving towards them, one small step at a time. (I&#8217;m so tempted to say baby steps here)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a world full of noise, uncertainty, and endless headlines, <strong>Ikigai whispers: &#8220;You are here. You have purpose. Keep going.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hope the article provided a greater understanding of ikigai and its anchoring role it plays in a world of mess, and I wanted to leave you with a\u00a0<strong>free\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/resources\/Purpose%20Framework%20Worksheet.pdf\">Purpose Framework worksheet<\/a>\u00a0so you can have a go at mapping yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can absolutely work on this worksheet on your own or if you\u2019re feeling stuck and want to&nbsp;<strong>talk it out with someone<\/strong>, book a&nbsp;<strong>KoPlay Discovery Play Session<\/strong>&nbsp;with me at&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:david@saltnpepper.sg\">david@saltnpepper.sg<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;ve ever jolted awake at 3am, mind racing through a hundred different &#8220;what ifs&#8221; about your life, career, or the world in general, I would often ponder about the what ifs till 3am. You&#8217;re not alone. These days, uncertainty feels like a default. Pandemics,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":214,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[17,19,87,85],"class_list":["post-212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ikigai","tag-ikigai","tag-purpose","tag-resilience","tag-self-discovery"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=212"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":217,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212\/revisions\/217"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/214"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saltnpepper.sg\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}